It’s not always easy studying abroad. Many students miss home, friends and all that is familiar. These are some of my tips on how to deal with those study abroad blues.
I was certainly warned about it. In my orientation sessions for studying abroad in New Zealand, they said I would go through some insane mood swings. I’d never considered myself a very emotionally susceptible person, so I took this lecture for a grain of salt. But boy was that a mistake!
There have been incredible moments of ecstasy on this adventure. I’ve felt it walking through glorious mountains. I’ve felt it fishing on crystal clear rivers. I have felt it when I’m with friends that I hope to know for the rest of my life. But, the other side of the coin has certainly led to some intense moments of “study abroad blues” as I’ve come to call it.
It can be a rather rainy and gloomy place here in Dunedin. Sometimes it feels just totally illogical why I feel sad and frustrated, but there’s an inherent longing for what is familiar in all of us, I think. It affects some more than I others I presume, but that feeling that you would rather just be where you’re comfortable has got to be in everyone.
But regardless, I quickly learned that I needed to find ways to get out of that funk as quickly as I could. So, for starters, I literally compiled a list of things to do when I was “bored” (a euphemism for my “study abroad blues”). I’m pretty sure the original went something like this...
Things to do when I’m bored (sad):
- Fish on the Leith River
- Go to Dunedin museum
- Write in my journal
- Go to university gym
- Listen to a new album
- Research chemistry stuff
Yes, I know most of you probably will not include “research chemistry stuff” in your list of things to do when you are sad, but that’s not the point. Find things that will take your mind off your worries, your longings, your shortcomings, or whatever it is that bothers you in those moments.
And just try your hardest to think how lucky you are to be where you are. That was what would pull me out of the funks the quickest, I think.
I may not be given a chance like this again for the rest of my time on this planet, so why spend it wallowing? It can take tremendous amounts of energy and focus sometimes, but it’s always worth it to be thankful and just take it all in.